Let's try this... Lessons from a vacation:
- Vacation brings out the best and worst in our family (and I think society as a whole, really). Children who normally argue over the simplest of situations are extending graces towards one another. There is a lot of time for snuggles on the couch, the beach, and carrying a sleeping, content four-year-old for miles on end. On the other hand, driving straight through or staying up late playing games or watching fireworks, pushes people past limits of kindness. Listening to parents (in "The Happiest Place on Earth") threaten to "yank your sorry butt out of this Dumbo line" and yell "Why do you have to act stupid like your grandma?" made me think they had somehow lost the point at being at Disney. I found myself, though, telling a child that if he didn't eat some protein for breakfast he wouldn't be able to ride rides. Hmmm... low moment on the vacation.
- Going to the beach is more fun than I thought it would be. I grew up on the beaches of California but still feel grossed out by spending so much time there as a family. Sand in too many places. Children who think rolling in sand is the most fun activity ever just make me cringe. I have to say, though, getting up each morning and heading to the beach was so relaxing and fun. I spent time reading, people-watching, and playing. Those who know me, know sitting around doing nothing is not my strong suit, but I bought into it.
- Seeing Kate's face at Disney World made the trip so great. I cried more than once seeing her sweet smile. She was so enjoyable on this trip. We are starting to discover more of her personality.
- William can do anything he puts his mind to... He can make me smile in an instant. He can change the mood in our entire family- positively or negatively. The kid can do anything athletic! He is growing up faster than I ever thought possible!
- I realized the downfall of the "middle child." Allie is my sweet, content, helpful child. She is just easy-going. I realized, though, that it becomes easy to expect her to sacrifice, flex, or be easy going even when she doesn't feel like it. I was taught a lesson to take time to make sure she feels special, unique, and loved. She is one great kid!
Well, I think those are all of my lessons for the trip! Nothing profound but loads of fun.
